Episode 47

#47 He takes a break to check in with the kids - with Saadia

Synopsis:

Saadia’s husband has travelled throughout their 14 year marriage. They have also moved countries during multiple times during that time. In this episode she shares her wisdom gained from experience over the years. You’re not going to want to miss this one!

Saadia’ husband had explained to her before they got married that his work would involve a lot of travel. She explains that she only really understood what he meant after a few years of marriage and their firstborn was a couple of years old. She reinforces that even though a person never really gets used to it, that it is possible to improve how it impacts you and your family. 

Here are the main takeaways from what Saadia has learnt over the years:

🌟 **Communication is Key** Regular communication helps maintain the connection between the traveling parent and the rest of the family – a simple, daily catch-up can make a world of difference, especially as the children get older. 

💪 **Acknowledge Challenges** It's crucial to acknowledge the difficulties that come with this lifestyle and to avoid the superhuman syndrome. It's okay to seek support and share the load.

🔄 **Adjust and Adapt** Priorities evolve over time, and so should coping strategies. From setting no-travel dates for special occasions to redefining what's essential – flexibility and adjustment are essential.

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Holding the Fort Abroad
The podcast for expats with travelling partners